The way we behave with people, we live our life and we deal with situations is as if everything is going to be as is for ever...! The shear feeling of permanence is the origin of all pain. Easier said than done, of course the toughest thing in life is to accept change. yea yea.. we all know all the good things about change and have all preached the acceptance of change to ourselves or to someone else in life. Think about the latest conversation you had with anyone to justify change, to justify a living with a loss, with a miss! By no means i say that ur intentions were cruel and not to help this person, but think about it with all genuinity,with an assurance of having the secret buried in your heart for ever, wud u do - as u preached??
We all know all life situations don't mean the same to all, we all carry our own respective baggage's & relate to each situation differently, yet what is preached is always what's ideal - the should have been's of life and not what one cud do with as much ease.. U scream, in an effort to pronounce your ideal self - to tell all that's worth hearing, worth preaching, worth living for! In the process u have already started a journey of drifting away from your own true being. Then comes a point where you seem completely disoriented from your situations and you no longer know the purpose of you being you.
Life is actually very simple, more or less the same for more or less everybody. Its a like a Christmas tree or a wedding gown. They are basically the same. They don't come in too many colors, and its only the decoration on the outside that make them look different... The outside is what in turn starts defining whats beneath..who owns it, and why does it look the way it does. The problem is we start associating our selves with the exterior so much that it starts becoming meaningful.
Strangely the exterior rules our being, our existence so muchh that you don't even realize when the remote control shifted from life to presentation of life. you tend to start getting governed by the way people wud know you than the way you know u'r self. You soon start worrying so much about all the perceptions about you and the loss of your focus from yourself - and ironically the overkill of the focus on your worldly self create this constant battle in you... of being lonely and yet paying so much attention to self!
What u really wish to connect with is with yourself and what u end up connecting with in all worldly ways is your projection of yourself. Now u can't cease to connect with your outer self cause that's become a way of life, and ur inner self keeps getting neglected. Think again, the standards that you set for someone else in life, are far higher than wat u cud do for yourself. cause there u hv the liberty of preaching all the right things without worrying to implement. so u become this fantastic person with all the bright ideas and wonderful suggestions, but no power, no control to guide your own life...!
We all know all life situations don't mean the same to all, we all carry our own respective baggage's & relate to each situation differently, yet what is preached is always what's ideal - the should have been's of life and not what one cud do with as much ease.. U scream, in an effort to pronounce your ideal self - to tell all that's worth hearing, worth preaching, worth living for! In the process u have already started a journey of drifting away from your own true being. Then comes a point where you seem completely disoriented from your situations and you no longer know the purpose of you being you.
Life is actually very simple, more or less the same for more or less everybody. Its a like a Christmas tree or a wedding gown. They are basically the same. They don't come in too many colors, and its only the decoration on the outside that make them look different... The outside is what in turn starts defining whats beneath..who owns it, and why does it look the way it does. The problem is we start associating our selves with the exterior so much that it starts becoming meaningful.
Strangely the exterior rules our being, our existence so muchh that you don't even realize when the remote control shifted from life to presentation of life. you tend to start getting governed by the way people wud know you than the way you know u'r self. You soon start worrying so much about all the perceptions about you and the loss of your focus from yourself - and ironically the overkill of the focus on your worldly self create this constant battle in you... of being lonely and yet paying so much attention to self!
What u really wish to connect with is with yourself and what u end up connecting with in all worldly ways is your projection of yourself. Now u can't cease to connect with your outer self cause that's become a way of life, and ur inner self keeps getting neglected. Think again, the standards that you set for someone else in life, are far higher than wat u cud do for yourself. cause there u hv the liberty of preaching all the right things without worrying to implement. so u become this fantastic person with all the bright ideas and wonderful suggestions, but no power, no control to guide your own life...!
Welllllllll. I know this beautiful lady (don’t laugh)since she was not a lady..don’t take me wrong...she was a kid that time...Jokes apart, after reading this blog, I realized that she is a grown up lady now and everyone should behave :):P
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